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How to Handle Finding Disturbing Content on Your Teen's Phone

Taking things into your own hands

With social media and the online world being the wild, wild, west that they are, it’s little wonder that millions of parents are turning to tools like a software to help protect their children. If the government or corporations don’t take responsibility for the untamed, unpredictable wilderness that is on the internet, it’s time to take matters into your own hands. At this moment parental monitoring software might be the only angel to help out to avoid kind of situation in future.

 

Taking things into your own hands

 

Online studies and surveys reveal that a majority of parents with children online choose to seek out avenues to constantly monitor and safeguard their kids. Here are some recent statistics regarding parental behaviors submitted by anonymous parents who felt that their children's online lives had to be monitored:

Number of parents who

  • Check Website visited – 61%
  • Check Social Media – 60%
  • Looks at Calls/Messages – 48%
  • Used Parental Control – 39%
  • Track Phone Location – 16%

 

You’ve prepared yourself with the tools you need to protect and safeguard your child. What would you do if something was off if something was disturbing and unacceptable?

This is a parent’s worst nightmare — and it is a delicate time for your children as well. All the more, it is important to keep your emotions in control and deal with this situation in the best way possible. Keep the right amount of understanding and patience to get to the root of the problem so you can begin to address the deepest level of the problem and nip it in the bud.

5 Best Ways to Handle the Situation

Here are some general guidelines on what to do when the worst happens should you notice disturbing behavior on your child’s cell phone.

1. Stay calm while talking

Children learn by emulating the emotions of their parents. If you laugh, the child learns the behaviour is positive. If you scream, the child learns the behaviors is negative. Unfortunately, coming into teenage-hood means these simple rules are infinitely more complicated, but your overall response to how you handle the situation still reflects in the growing circuity of their minds.

 

Stay calm while talking

 

Stay calm at all times, so your focus is on the behavior you want to address, not your reaction to it or your emotions. The fact that there is a trend, pattern, or behavior here is what needs to be corrected. Losing your cool takes away from that message and staying calm allows your child to see your role as their papa or mama bear only looking for what’s best for them.

2. Avoid making assumptions

Too often we forget what it means to think like a teenager and the behavior and trends of the youth is always baffling to adults. Under your adult, worldly, mindset, you mustn’t impose any of your logic or assumptions onto the behavior of your child, who is still at the mercy of their hormones, peer pressure, and their childlike desires to belong to a group and learn about self-identity. Judge the situation for what it is and no more.

3. Review rules and guidelines

Ground rules are critical components of any system and structure. Push too hard, and they rebel, push too little, and they don’t receive correction when they need it. Guidelines for using cell phones and social media are a must, as preventing them completely only makes them go underground with their behavior where you cannot monitor it. You should help your teens to for time management in this technical era. This is an absolutely critical point. Allow them the leniency of freedom while nudging and guiding them slowly and steadily in the direction you want them to go.

4. Monitor internet usage

The internet is too uncontrolled and unregulated, so the need to check their usage is paramount. This is a golden opportunity to understand the sites they use, and what behavior they are looking to emulate. Monitor your kids smart phone usage and get the opportunity to understand them on a deeper level regarding how they think, feel, and the things they run towards and push away from, show your child’s inner psyche.

Use the information you gain to push your child towards healthier options that will ultimately allow them to seek out healthy behavior. The private information you gain here allows information you would never receive in any teenager-to-adult conversations. This is essential for your decision making.

5. Leave room for learning

No matter how much it pains a parent, the best teacher, in the end, is experience and pain. Allowing your child the opportunity to make mistakes despite knowing full well how to save them from harm’s way isn’t conducive towards building functional, capable adults. Steering them away from short-term disaster might only egg them on towards long-term chaos in the long run if someone is there to remedy all their problems in a snap.

Meet the guardian angel that fits in your pocket

TiSPY allows parents everywhere a golden opportunity to understand their child’s mind. When they speak and communicate with their peers, they communicate in a way that teens never will towards their parents, and therein lies the goldmine of information on what makes your baby their unique self. The person most capable of impacting their decisions is their parents and the monitoring tools that

 

 

TiSPY provides its parents allow them the information they need to make their decisions for a healthier, happier and more competent mind.

 

 

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